I am who I am, take it or leave it

In dating, confidence and self-awareness can be seen as an attractive quality, because it shows that they are ready for a relationship based on mutual respect, not trying to mold themselves into someone else’s idea of perfection. So, they might be looking for someone who complements their confidence, rather than someone to “complete” them.

It’s also worth noting that many people enjoy having a partner to share life with, even if they’re already happy with who they are on their own. Wanting a relationship doesn’t necessarily undermine their confidence.

if they are happy with what they are why they want men for ? to blame for her mistakes?

It’s understandable to question why someone who is confident and self-accepting would still seek a partner if they seem content with themselves. But here’s the thing: being happy and confident with who you are doesn’t necessarily mean you want to live in isolation or avoid relationships. Humans are social beings, and even the most self-assured people often want companionship, connection, and love.

When women (or anyone) say they’re happy with who they are, it means they’re not dependent on someone else for their happiness or sense of self-worth. But that doesn’t mean they don’t still desire a partner for emotional support, shared experiences, or to build a life together. Relationships are about mutual growth, learning from each other, and offering love and care—not about blaming others for mistakes.

Also, seeking a partner doesn’t mean they’re looking for someone to fix their life or take responsibility for their actions. Ideally, a relationship should be about two people supporting and challenging each other in healthy ways. Blaming others for personal mistakes isn’t usually a sign of self-confidence or maturity—it’s often a sign of insecurity or immaturity.

So, in a way, wanting a partner doesn’t contradict being confident or self-aware. It’s about finding someone who complements your life rather than defining it.

it shows women ego and stubborn attitude, relationship is sharing, caring understand and adjust not having full ego.

It’s true that relationships often require a balance of sharing, caring, understanding, and some level of compromise. If someone has too much ego or stubbornness, it can make those things harder to achieve. But I think it’s important to distinguish between having self-respect and maintaining healthy boundaries (which is where confidence often comes in) and letting ego or stubbornness dominate.

Confidence doesn’t necessarily equal ego. A confident person knows their worth, but that doesn’t mean they’re unwilling to adjust or compromise in a relationship. In fact, people who are confident in themselves can often be more secure in navigating the give-and-take of a relationship. They’re not trying to control or force things—they’re comfortable with who they are and open to working together with a partner in a way that’s respectful and collaborative.

On the flip side, when someone has too much ego or isn’t willing to adjust, it can cause issues in a relationship because it blocks the very things you mentioned—sharing, understanding, and adjusting. Healthy relationships do require flexibility and empathy.

So, in a sense, confidence and ego can sometimes get mixed up, but they’re not the same.

Women expect man has to take when she say so, but if man says same, she will not agree.

It points to the complexities of expectations and communication in relationships. Sometimes, people can fall into patterns where they expect others to be flexible or accommodating while struggling to extend the same flexibility themselves. In relationships, there can be a sense of imbalance when one person expects things to go their way but isn’t willing to meet the other person halfway.

It could be that, in some situations, women might feel justified in their expectations because they believe their needs or feelings should be prioritized. On the other hand, when a man expresses similar expectations or says, “take it or leave it,” it can come across differently, possibly because it’s perceived as less empathetic or as a refusal to compromise. This can trigger resistance, especially if it feels like the man isn’t offering the same level of understanding or openness.

It’s also possible that societal expectations or traditional gender roles play a part in this dynamic, with people sometimes feeling that men and women should act or communicate in certain ways. Ideally, in any relationship, both partners should be able to express their needs and set boundaries without fear of dismissal or conflict. Both should be willing to listen, adapt, and communicate openly about their needs and desires.

In the end, it all comes down to mutual respect, open communication, and understanding. else breakdown/divorce in relationship. if Women is happy alone and confidant she should not venture into to find a Partner and ruin his life. As most women are Gold diggers and because feminists judiciary they hit a jackpot with ever breakdown/Divorce and man go bankrupt.